Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Eco Birthday Goodie Bags


One of the things about birthday parties that chill my, progressively-more-eco, heart is the ubiquitous goodie bags. (Is it eco-goody bag or eco goddie-bag or eco-goodie-bags? Whatever.) Though there is a lot to cringe about (at least for a not-quite-crunchy parent) at children’s birthday parties, goodie bags seem to attack my senses on two or perhaps three levels:

- Those little plastic or even paper bags with garish ink surely aren’t terribly recyclable.

- My child surely doesn’t need a bag full of plastic, breakable (surely made in China) toys.

- After sugary cake - sugary candy doesn’t seem especially wise.

- While I don’t mind attending a commercial character themed birthday party; I don’t necessarily want to have to then take those characters home with me.

Now don’t get me wrong- I’ve done my share of packing crinkly plastic bags with multiple plastic character-based toys that break on the way home but, I’m getting better. And so are my friends…using the simple (and catchy) eco principles of:

Reduce, Reuse, Recycle

(I like alliterative catch phrases, don’t you it’s often the only way I can remember anything, especially when planning a birthday bash.)

Reduce - Is there something written somewhere that indicates exactly how many little trinkets belong in a goodie bag. How about one? (OK – maybe a few.)

Reuse - Rather than invest in plastic bags that are thrown away - how about something that can be used again and again – at the party even.

Recycle – you get the idea – paper not plastic or at least the recyclable kind.

Here’s some ideas from recent parties I’ve given and attended:


- For spring and summer parties- a small plant (flowers, veggies, cactus) under a dollar in multi packs.

- Capes- this is big hit with the preschool set – You can buy a few yards of no sew fabric – (fleece, vinyl, etc.) then sew on Velcro, a button and loop or a ribbon to fasten. If you can’t sew don’t worry – this is easy – I did it with my $35.00 sewing machine.( BTW – I found making a hem and inserting a ribbon easier than struggling with sticky Velcro.)

- Masks – this can be a craft activity as well. Fabric or foam masks can be decorated as part of the fun and worn during the party – think kids as decorations.

- Tiny Treasures – shells, rocks, geodes, wooden animals, tiny fairies

- Your craft activity – Planning a craft activity that has “legs’’, that is can be used after the party produces an instant favor. Last year we make ocean themed “snow globes”. I still see them at friends’ houses a year later. Other ideas include: bead necklaces, painted tee-shirts and fabric hats.

- And, if you feel you must have something to put goodies in, as I do – think reusable. For under a dollar a piece I’ve bought, tiny metal buckets (on sale at Michael’s after every holiday in that holiday’s color) and little fabric tote bags.


Sound expensive? Well not really. Cutting back on the number of goodies means you can spend a little more to give a few slightly more expensive ones.

I know you have some great ideas too. Help me out here…I have a birthday party to plan next year!



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24 comments:

Vanessa said...

Thanks for sharing your ideas!

Last year, we just gave out cowbot hats at my son's party. All of the kids had fun wearing them during the party, and I still see one every now and then at a playdate.

Gray Matters said...

For my son's last two birthdays I have opted out of goody bags for other items. His birthday is in October - two years ago we gave everyone a small pumpkin they decorated at the party and took home. Last year we made and decorated picture frames using a lot of left over craft materials from previous projects - I took a picture of my son with each guest at the party and included a copy of the picture when we sent out the thank you card to place in the frame. It was extra work and not as easy as stuffing a plastic bag with junky stuff, but well worth the effort.

Charity said...

Thanks for the great ideas! We've often tried, too, to keep the "goodies" related to the theme of the party. One year we had a Tea Party, and I purchased china cups and saucers at garage sales and thrift stores for each guest to take home. Another, we had a Hawaiian party, and decorated flip flop sandals and made paper leis for each child. Sometimes, it's extra work, but it can also be a lot of fun! :0)

Amanda said...

Great ideas! I'm with you, I try really hard to avoid the plastic bag filled with plastic toys. I've given out little cloth bags that I made (you can also buy them at craft stores). For my son's birthday last year, the "goody" was part of the party. I made felt elf/Peter Pan hats, and there was a scavenger hunt to find all sorts of things to put onto the hat (bird pins, name pins, bells). Let's see...here's the link. We also gave a single cut flower to each child as they were leaving. The kids were 5 and 6, they really liked the flowers.

Lisa said...

In the "crafts with legs" category: last year my son requested that we do beads. So we bought a bunch of beads, wire, and semi-cheap clasps (don't want them too cheap for the younger set, or they just break; tell the people at the store what you're doing and they should be able to recommend a happy medium). Then the kids sat and made necklaces/bracelets for themselves. You could reduce the cost by using plastic beads. Not my favorite, but still better than the cheapo toys that break on human contact.

Lisa said...

Other things I've seen:
- a small plant
- buy the plain t-shirts, hats, or aprons at Michael's and a bunch of puff paint and let the kids go to town (this is better if you can do it outside)
- (pirate themed party): get the small wooden treasure chests (Michael's) and let the kids decorate them with paint and/or gluing on shells/jewels/etc. Organize a treasure hunt (think small jewels) and the kids can collect the treasure in their chests.

happyhousewife said...

Great ideas, I have never been a fan of the traditional goodie bags.

Stretch Mark Mama said...

I hear ya! But I'm so cheap I usually skip the goodie bags entiredly. (BAD MOMMY)

Taking gifts to birthday parties is always a "blech" for me too---like a kid NEEDS a bunch of "junk."

Anyway, I usually choose gifts like sugarfree gum (at least it's not plastic junk) or craft paper or notepads (recyclable).

anthromama said...

As a professional editor, I would say "eco goody-bags" :)

The dollar section in Target usually has little metal buckets for major holidays and seasons. Right now they have Easter/spring stuff. A lot of their dollar stuff is made in China, however!

My kids would love natural "trinkets" like crystals, plant seeds, shells, etc. That's what's in their pockets anyway!

HomeandHearth said...

I just went to a friend's party where her goody "bags" were actually those cardboard boxes with little metal handles that fold up like Chinese food take-out boxes. There were a few handmade goody items inside, and then she encouraged everyone to fill the boxes with leftovers to take home.

Rebecca said...

My daughter isn't old enough to notice goody bags yet, but it sounds like this is something I'll have to worry about soon. I like stretch mark mama's tip to just skip the goody bags entirely. After that, I really liked your ideas to give a plant or "craft with legs." I am not sure buying a little bucket or sewing a cloth bag is too much better than using a plastic bag. I know I end up with a lot of little containers like that and never know what to do with all of them.

I just found your blog--I will add it to our blogroll over at http://greenbabyguide.com. I enjoy reading it!

a Tonggu Momma said...

I always give fun school or craft supplies like fancy pencils, fun looking erasers, small craft supplies, stuff like that.

I still have a pillowcase I made in fifth grade at my birthday party. My mom bought fabric paints, and everyone signed everyone else's pillowcase. I'm still using it in my daughter's room, so I guess that's eco-friendly.

Spin said...

Thank You...I can't stand the little toys I keep finding in my car, even a year later. My daughter's birthday is in June, this year we plan to get little terra cotta pots and little plants, some soil, etc. The kids will be planting their own flowers after they decorate their pot. This will be a fun, educational and oh so green activity.

Shawna said...

Love the photo! And the ideas... and just in time as I plan a birthday party here shortly.

Jane said...

My friend gave out rubber playground balls for her daughters birthday. They were a huge hit. She got a whole bag at an educational store for a pretty reasonable price.

Nina said...

We just had a birthday party for my 4 year old daughter. Five little girls in attendence. We gave each girl a copy of The Flower Fairies of Winter, wrapped and tied with a pink ribbon. We could spend a bit more ($6 a book) because we kept the guest list to a reasonable number.

I love the cape idea and the rubber playground balls.

Heart of Wisdom said...

Good Job Mom! I Love your Idea.
I hate the cheap breakable junk that can pile up in the toy room.

Thanks for sharing.

robin@heartofwisdom
http://heartofwisdom.com/heartathome

Diana said...

Thanks for all the great ideas as I, too, hate typical goody bag (Chuck E. Cheese) plastic landfill filler!

For our daughter's 2nd birthday, we bought a bucket of those giant chalk sticks and gave one to every kiddo to take home-- after they colored all over the sidewalk at the park, of course. We also had bubbles for the kiddos to take home as they're a big hit with this age group.

For my son's 4th birthday, we were a little more adventurous! We got those little metal buckets and filled each one with 3 bean bags we made ourselves! The 4 year olds had fun tossing their bean bags into the buckets and maybe someone will teach them to juggle some day -- so many uses for bean bags!

Diana said...

Forgot to tell you I linked to your post, too!
http://holesinmyshinyveneer.blogspot.com/2008/03/better-birthday-goody-bags.html

Thanks for giving me another post to save!

Allison said...

I just thought of another idea for a sort of educational goody-bag item. If you fold paper into a "six-door" shape (see www.cps.k12.ri.us/pview/@extra_pages/how%20to%20fold.pdf)
you can make a little interactive book for children to work with later, at home. For example, I have written on each panel (which is then lifted to reveal a picture inside that each participant will draw with his/her parents at home), I wrote "At my friend's party, I saw..." "At my friend's party, I ate..." (etc with "played", "found", etc). It's a great way to keep memories and review events and make observations!

chasmyn said...

Great post! I found you when I Googled "eco goody bag ideas". I love the commenter's idea of getting t-shirts and paints and letting them go to town. I'm doing a train party for my about to be 3-year-old and I think that is perfect! Kids at the party range in age from 1-12, so that is a perfect activity for any age. Thanks for the wonderful ideas - I was completely stumped!

Amanda Planta said...

Cool Post! I recently googled and found www.TickleMePlant.com I gave out the TickleMe plant party favors and they were a big hit at my daughters Birthday Party. Everyone was shocked as I showed them the plant that MOVED when they Tickled it! Then I told them they were all going to take home the TickleMe Plant Party favor and grow their own from seeds!
How exciting it was! I highly recommend everyone to try this as it proved to be the best party favor the kids every received.
Growing the TickleMe Plant was a great experience for all.

Jessica hoisington said...

For those interested, I have created a Green Birthday Party Planner at my web site.

Jessica Hoisington

Green Birthday Party Planner @ hoisingtonbooks.com

Anonymous said...

Thank you for all these great ideas. Another idea is to check out the "shops" of your favorite non-profits. For instance, binoculars from the National Wildlife Federation or Audubon birds. We also hold our parties at local arboretums or outdoor education centers. Fun for the kids and a nice way to make a donation to a worthy cause.